Avoid These 4 “Psycho Ex” Break Up Mistakes Most Women Make

The time right after breaking up is the hardest…

The edginess that comes with the silence…

The tension of when and what the next communication is going to be…

This is when its the MOST unbearable…

AND this also when you’re the most likely to do or say something to try to get back together… You’ll find that these “flair ups” of powerful edginess will hit you after you’ve been thinking about him, and it will seem like the only way to deal with that tension is to see him or talk with him about it.

BUT this is also the time when you should do WHATEVER it takes to keep yourself from acting on the urge to call or contact your ex.

Don’t be “that girl”.

Show yourself you can do it…

And you are not doing it from a place of panic.

Mistake #2: Giving Him Another Opportunity To Let You Down or “Reject” You

When it comes to someone we love… We can be suckers for self inflicted pain.

It’s an inevitable part of being a someone who values deep connection and romance…

Of course, this can (and often does) spin terribly out of control.

Unfortunately, what will make you feel MORE heartbroken than you are right now…

Is doing it over again and again.

Women spend so much time fantasizing about getting back with that “special guy”, or how they are destined to still be “in each other’s lives” that they don’t give themselves the space to actually move on and get over her.

One of the toughest parts about trying to get over guy you are still in love with is is that its hard to think about anything else…

Especially if you still are REALLY into him.

But now is NOT the time to “pour your heart out” or let him know how much you can’t stop thinking about him.

Let him wonder.

Let him think about whether he made a mistake.

And let him MISS you.

Mistake #3: Thinking the “Intensity” of the Pain Means You & Him Are Meant To Be

Breaking up f*$!ing hurts.

The lifestyle change.

The “new” future ahead of you…

No two ways about it… Not only does it hurt, but let’s face it.

It can be SCARY.

But if you were with someone you cared about enought to be in pain in the first place…

There is no “clean break”.

No skipping the cathardic experience of dealing with the loss of someone you still love.

But the pain you are in has NOTHING to do with whether or not you and him should be together.

And as BAD as this can feel…

There that one thing that is actually WORSE than breaking up.

Being in a relationship with a guy who doesn’t love you.

Being in a relationship that drains you and makes you feel bad.

Being WEIGHED down by the constant drama, emotional roller coasters and the endless “push and pull”.

Mistake #4: Not Taking Action To Deal With the Break Up Directly

Sitting in indecision…

Hanging on his every response, and wondering what he is thinking…

Waiting for him and “hanging in limbo”…

Will only make your daily life painful.

It will make him LOSE RESPECT for you.

And it will keep the right man from ever coming into your life… So many women pass up opportunities for a better relationship
because they are still “holding out” for a guy who they know DEEP DOWN isn’t right for them.

Despite what their girlfriends or family tell them, or what they know any self respecting woman should do… They keep hanging on.

The next step in handling a break up is making a decision and sticking with it.

No matter how messy, painful or inconvienient it might be.

And when you’ve made that decision, holding to it…

And deal with the break up so that you get over the pain and over him in a way that is natural and lasting.

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