My Somewhat Painful Breakup

It was easy for me to get over my ex and the painful break up. Why? You’ll see…It was back in 2004, I had just got out of the US Army and I was looking for romance or so I had thought. Maybe I was just thinking with the wrong head. In any case, I went to a local bar and I found a very beautiful brunette with legs up to her neck. I was in complete awe but after a few more shots of tequila I got up the nerve to ask her to dance. She actually said yes. The rest was history, as they say. We were married 3 months later.

Yes, I know. How can someone marry another person after 3 months? Trust me, I ask myself that very same question every single day of my life. Things started to change around the 4 month mark. She wanted to spend more time with her “friends” or wanted to spend time “alone”.

I really had no problem with her doing this until it became something she wanted to do all the time. I decided to go to my brother with my worries. He had actually knew her before we married and he said she was a “wild one”. I didn’t listen mainly because I thought I could tame her. He repeatedly told me to keep an eye on her.

Weeks past and I just got fed up with all the crap she was putting me through. She would stay out all hours of the night, have secretive phone calls, etc. I was done trying to be nice. We had it out. We talked and I thought we worked things out because we had “make-up” sex. But that was just her way of not getting kicked out. She went back to her deceitful ways and before I knew it, we were back to where we were before.

One Monday morning, I was off to work and I got halfway there and I had to turn around because I forgot something. When I pulled up I saw another car in the driveway. Didn’t think much of it at the time. Until I walked in on my wife having sex with 3 other people. Needless to say, she was a whore in my book from there on out. There was no reason for me to get over my ex girlfriend. That was reason enough. I hated her. But my ex girlfriend got what she deserved. She did me wrong and I learned that 2 months after we split she had been diagnosed with GC and Chlamydia. Karma is hell.